On a recent Sunday, snow whirling outside, I scoured the house for something to read, hoping to curl up with a good thriller. Tucked in among a motley collection of still unpacked titles — picture books, college texts and weighty political tracts — I discovered a dog-eared copy of HMS Ulysses, the classic adventure story of combat in the North Atlantic. Captured by the cover image, a World War II cruiser steaming through stormy seas, I began to read the yellowed pages. This was my father’s war. The treacherous routes drawn up on the book’s nautical map would have felt familiar to him. And as I traced those journeys it struck me how little I knew of his harrowing years at sea and the memories he carried with him into old age.
The novel follows the fortunes of a merchant convoy’s terrifying voyage to Russia’s Arctic outposts and the deadly game of cat-and-mouse they play with Nazi U-boats and bombers. Hardly the kind of narrative I regularly devour. So I was more than a little surprised to feel the wave of longing and regret the story triggered.
It was the vivid descriptions that moved me: mountainous rogue waves and Arctic temperatures of -60 F, clouds of frozen sea spray and torpedo explosions bunched together in rapid-fire succession — three hits in three seconds — that ripped and shredded metal, catapulting sailors into the icy waters.
Through it all I pictured my dad. A ship’s engineer, he survived 30 voyages across the Atlantic, including four missions to Archangel and Murmansk. He was my son’s age, 26 years old, when he sailed those deadly waters, running the North Atlantic gauntlet to Russia. More than 800 ships, 40 convoys, followed that route between 1941 and 1945, risking everything to deliver supplies to the Soviet allies. Of those, over 100 never made it home, marking it as one of the most dangerous duties of the Second World War.
When we were kids my father shared few tales of his adventures in the Merchant Marine, shrugging off that time as the long-forgotten past. Near the end of his life he sometimes talked of a Christmas Eve when the crew watched helplessly as a nearby tanker was torpedoed, its sailors burning to death in oily Arctic waters. But mostly he kept those horror stories to himself.
There was one scene he’d tell us kids, often with a gruff laugh: “It was late night and I was on deck having a smoke. We still didn’t have our orders. I hoped we might be headed for Scotland, maybe get to go to shore, drink a warm beer, dance with a girl.”
Standing in the biting wind, braced against the ship’s heavy pitch, he offered a fellow sailor a cigarette. The two men peered into the winter sky, searching the stars to plot their voyage. It didn’t take long to calculate. “So much for Scotland,” the sailor said, tossing his cigarette over the stern. My father sighed as he trudged back to the engine room and his duty. “It’s Murmansk. Again,”
As a child, my take away from the story was that my father could navigate from the stars. As an adult, I find myself considering all that my father left unsaid. What was he thinking as he stared out into the darkness, facing the certainty of piercing cold days and countless nights without sleep, the possibility of Arctic storms, and the unremitting fear of sudden and violent death? I wish I’d urged my father to tell me the story of those remarkable days. I wish I’d recorded his adventures and documented his memories, decoding how they shaped him in later life to pass on as a gift to future generations.
Maybe it’s the missed chance of witnessing my father’s story that’s made me passionate about telling other people’s histories. I’ve seen firsthand that the stories left untold are forever lost, and that those told second-hand are corrupted in the retelling, each time with more lapses and more inaccuracies until finally, drifting from generation to generation, they simply fade away.
Talking to people about their lives — hearing their remembrances, often deeply personal and emotional — is an extraordinary privilege. It’s a privilege that is now my work. The job begins with listening, but it’s in the writing that a unique theme emerges and personal histories are woven into a larger story. A timeline for a life can be constructed, but it’s placing our life stories in the crowded arc of human events that gives them meaning for future generations and adds an invaluable dimension to our own family story. It’s those stories that we cherish most and hope to pass down to our children and grandchildren.
— Caitlin Randall
2 thoughts on “The Arctic Convoys: Navigating My Father’s Untold History”
Caitlin I can’t believe your father served in the US Merchant Marine durin WW II in the Atlantic Theater of Operations. So did my father, Casimiro Conde (b. July 28, 1922, d. Oct. 3, 1973). He served as an engineer aboard Merchant Marine ships in the Atlantic Ocean from his 19th birthday (summer 1940) — as soon as he was old enough — through to fall 1946. WW II In Europe ended May 8, 1945 but the US-led allies were left caring for millions of war-ruined Europeans and the Merchant Marine helped keep them alive. I tried to research my father’s service record. But Merchant Marines didn’t have status as war veterans ( at least until 1988). Couldn’t find out much. Merchant Marines lost more lives in WW II than any branch of the armed forces due to total domination of the Atlantic by German U-Boats in the first years of the war. Loaded British innovations and American bombers at sea completely eliminated the U-Boat Forces, which ended up suffering highest proportion of losses of any of branches of German armed forces. My father spent his entire youth from 19 to age 24 in the engine rooms of US Merchant Marine refined petroleum fuel tankers. He had immigrated to Brooklyn a couple of years before at the end of Spanish Civil War. His father, Manuel Conde, a Texaco Inc. Petroleum Tanker Chief Engineer has been a naturalized American for two decades before WW II.
That’s fascinating! Both our fathers worked in the engine rooms. My father was the ship’s engineer and told stories of having to lock down the engine room when the convoys were under attack. I can’t imagine how terrifying that must have been for the men working below deck, trying to keep the ship under way.